One of the top questions re: impending marriage has been “Are you going to change your name?” My short answer is sure, why not, which has surprised most people. The long answer is that I cannot change it professionally at this point, so at work I will stay Irish.
Lucky for me there is an actual website that will handle these difficulties for the busy wife on the go- imamrs.com
I’m both horrified and jealous I didn’t think of it?
Every so often I think I could live in LA. Good for work, mountains and ocean (although it smells), nice weather, easy-ish lifestyle, nice homes.
And then I go to a real city, like Singapore or Hong Kong or Tokyo or New York and I realize l would fucking hate it.
My fiance (I just mistyped that as finance 4 times) just suggested the Holiday Inn in Long Island City for our wedding…
He wasn’t really suggesting it, only saying out-of-town people could stay there for cheap, but man did I almost have a meltdown.
It feels like the last day of school outside
Never-worn wedding dresses on Ebay may be the most depressing thing ever.
(and yes, I’m looking for wedding dresses on Ebay)
You remember in college when you’d stay out until 4:30am because the campus bar had $1 Long Island Ice Teas, and then when you’d get up for your 8am class you’d find yourself in Phi Delts cold-air room missing only your socks and there was just no fixing your hair and your eyes would be basically glued shut and you’d wonder if your BAC was still over the legal limit but you’d shuffle off to Interpersonal Communications 201 anyway?
That is how this jetlag feels.
I got engaged yesterday. I have already had multiple people ask me what the date is (and people have called/emailed my mom to ask the date). Is this something I’m supposed to already know?!